I know these 3 truths: 1. My abuser is known and loved in the community. 2. I was confused on whether or not "it counted" because we were in a committed relationship at the time. 3. Even after, I still loved him.
If I were to ever say this to anyone, people would know exactly who I'm talking about. So I don't. The thing is, I'm still protecting him. Even now, I don't want him to go through hell although he's the one that raised it for me.
I know these 3 truths: 1. It has been a long process, but I'm working through it. 2. I have people that love and support me. 3. This experience does not define me.